As we approach February 14th, if you’re like me you’re starting to see the onslaught of Valentine’s Day marketing products on TV, in stores, or you may  hear from colleagues or friends speaking of big upcoming date plans.

As a single man I have learned to handle Valentine’s Day fairly well and normally go with the flow. However, this year has been a personal challenge as I witness my mother facing very challenging health issues.  My father is right by her side, though, helping her manage the constant doctor visits, special diet needs and overpriced prescription fillings which are never covered by insurance.

A few days ago I gave my Mom a box of Valentine’s chocolates; it warmed her heart and she gave me that special smile and, “Thank you,” that only a mother-son can recognize.  As I was on my way out of the room I glanced at my Dad and thats when it hit me – that the success of their 45+ year marriage was not based on materialism, bedroom magic or remembering to go through the motions on certain festive days of the year, but rather God bringing two wonderful people together who dated for the right reasons which set the foundation for a successful marriage even when bumps and tumultuous times hit.

It’s always been God’s hand which held them together with His unchanging love.